VFR 0'6 ABS service test connector question.

I grabbed my manual and found the section to pull the codes from the ECU. One problem though - I can't find the two wire connector? I removed everything on the front and can't find it. The picture in the manual looks like the connector is by the fuse box. All I can find there is a four wire red connector and the wire colors don't match the wiring schematics. Does anyone know where the %$^%& connector is located?

connector looks like at that thread: http://vfrworld.com/forums/mechanics-garage/31618-my-06-dead.html

 

I have no idea

 

My 02 has a 2 pin connector hanging down on the right side inside the front fairing near the headlights.

 

The 6th gen has two fuse panels. Like gmanrn says, one is behind the instrument side panel on the throttle side. Buried.