Cruising temps are 175-185F. At stop light temps are low 220'sF. '09 with 25kmi. I change the coolant every year. Fan works. OEM tstat. Seems like a wide range in temps?
Perfectly normal - Almost identical temps to my 08.. Try not to stop too often - it gets too hot. lol
When you are cruising with good airflow, the engine temp is dictated by the opening temp of the thermostat, which is right around 76-78C. When you stop there is no airflow theough the rads so the temp increases to the point where the thermoswitch kick the radiator on, usually right around 100-102C. Temps should then sit around or a little above that point unless it is REALLY hot where you are.